Top Ten Takeaways from “Amoris Laetitia”
The National Catholic Review
Synod on the Family
Apr 8 2016
James Martin, S.J.
Pope Francis’s groundbreaking new document “Amoris Laetitia” (“The Joy of Love”) asks the church to meet people where they are, to consider the complexities of people’s lives and to respect people’s consciences when it comes to moral decisions. The apostolic exhortation is mainly a document that reflects on family life and encourages families. But it is also the pope’s reminder that the church should avoid simply judging people and imposing rules on them without considering their struggles.
Using insights from the Synod of Bishops on the Family and from bishops’ conferences from around the world, Pope Francis affirms church teaching on family life and marriage, but strongly emphasizes the role of personal conscience and pastoral discernment. He urges the church to appreciate the context of people’s lives when helping them make good decisions. The goal is to help families—in fact, everyone—experience God’s love and know that they are welcome members of the church. All this may require what the pope calls “new pastoral methods” (199).
Here are ten things to know about the pope’s groundbreaking new document.
1. The church needs to understand families and individuals in all their complexity. The church needs to meet people where they are. So pastors are to “avoid judgements which do not take into account the complexity of various situations” (296). People should not be “pigeonholed or fit into overly rigid classifications leaving no room for personal and pastoral discernment” (298). In other words, one size does not fit all. People are encouraged to live by the Gospel, but should also be welcomed into a church that appreciates their particular struggles and treats them with mercy. “Thinking that everything is black and white” is to be avoided (305). And the church cannot apply moral laws as if they were “stones to throw at people’s lives” (305). Overall, he calls for an approach of understanding, compassion and accompaniment.
2. The role of conscience is paramount in moral decision making. “Individual conscience needs to be better incorporated into the church’s practice in certain situations which do not objectively embody our understanding of marriage” (303). That is, the traditional belief that individual conscience is the final arbiter of the moral life has been forgotten here. The church has been “called to form consciences, not to replace them” (37). Yes, it is true, the Pope says, that a conscience needs to be formed by church teaching. But conscience does more than to judge what does or does not agree with church teaching. Conscience can also recognize with “a certain moral security” what God is asking (303). Pastors, therefore, need to help people not simply follow rules, but to practice “discernment,” a word that implies prayerful decision making (304).
3. Divorced and remarried Catholics need to be more fully integrated into the church. How? By looking at the specifics of their situation, by remembering “mitigating factors,” by counselling them in the “internal forum,” (that is, in private conversations between the priest and person or couple), and by respecting that the final decision about the degree of participation in the church is left to a person’s conscience (305, 300). (The reception of Communion is not spelled out here, but that is a traditional aspect of “participation” in church life.) Divorced and remarried couples should be made to feel part of the church. “They are not excommunicated and should not be treated as such, since they remain part” of the church (243).
4. All members of the family need to be encouraged to live good Christian lives. Much of “Amoris Laetitia” consists of reflections on the Gospels and church teaching on love, the family and children. But it also includes a great deal of practical advice from the pope, sometimes gleaned from exhortations and homilies regarding the family. Pope Francis reminds married couples that a good marriage is a “dynamic process” and that each side has to put up with imperfections. “Love does not have to be perfect for us to value it” (122, 113). The pope, speaking as a pastor, encourages not only married couples, but also engaged couples, expectant mothers, adoptive parents, widows, as well as aunts, uncles and grandparents. He is especially attentive that no one feels unimportant or excluded from God’s love.
5. We should no longer talk about people “living in sin.” In a sentence that reflects a new approach, the pope says clearly, “It can no longer simply be said that all those living in any ‘irregular situation’ are living in a state of mortal sin” (301). Other people in “irregular situations,” or non-
6. What might work in one place may not work in another. The pope is not only speaking in terms of individuals, but geographically as well. “Each country or region…can seek solutions better suited to its culture and sensitive to its traditions and local needs” (3). What makes sense pastorally in one country may even seem out of place in another. For this reason and others, as the pope says at the beginning of the document that for this reason, not every question can be settled by the magisterium, that is, the church’s teaching office (3).
7. Traditional teachings on marriage are affirmed, but the church should not burden people with unrealistic expectations. Marriage is between one man and one woman and is indissoluble; and same-
8. Children must be educated in sex and sexuality. In a culture that often commodifies and cheapens sexual expression, children need to understand sex within the “broader framework of an education for love and mutual self-
9. Gay men and women should be respected. While same-
10. All are welcome. The church must help families of every sort, and people in every state of life, know that, even in their imperfections, they are loved by God and can help others experience that love. Likewise, pastors must work to make people feel welcome in the church. “Amoris Laetitia” offers the vision of a pastoral and merciful church that encourages people to experience the “joy of love.” The family is an absolutely essential part of the church, because after all, the church is a “family of families” (80).
Apostolic Exhortation on the Family Pope Francis Is Calling for a New Openness on the Part of the Church
8th April 2016
by Christopher Lamb in Rome
The apostolic exhortation 'The Joy of Love' is published today and signals the start of a more flexible, understanding Church.
With his document on the family, Pope Francis has let a chink of light into the Church’s window.
His apostolic exhortation, titled “Amoris Laetitia,” Latin for “The Joy of Love”, signals the start of a more flexible, understanding Church. No longer is it acceptable to "throw stones" of doctrine at those struggling in their personal lives, and things are not just about the rules. What used to be black and white are various shades of grey.
Let’s be clear, the Pope has not changed any doctrine. That was never his plan. But if there is a bottom line it is this: mercy and the need to adopt a policy of radical inclusion in the Church.
"No one can be condemned for ever, because that is not the logic of the Gospel!", the Pope writes. "Here I am not speaking only of the divorced and remarried, but of everyone, in whatever situation they find themselves."
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A stress on papal humility with Francis admitting he doesn’t have all the answers: “Not all discussions of doctrinal, moral or pastoral issues need to be settled by interventions of the magisterium,” Francis writes.
Doors are open to the possibility of giving communion to divorced and remarried Catholics.
The Church can’t simply apply the rules; there is a need for discernment of individual cases. Rome can no longer enforce a “one-
Damning criticism of the Church’s past strategy on the family and an admission that priests are inadequately prepared for dealing with complex situations.
Francis says gay people should be given “respectful pastoral guidance” and adds little on whether the Church should adopt a more welcoming approach.
On the hotly debated question of communion for divorced and remarried there isn’t a firm answer but the direction of travel is clear. He repeats what the synod fathers agreed last October that there should be a process of accompaniment and discernment using the "internal forum". This would allow for an individual, under the guidance of a priest, to assess whether he or she could receive the sacrament. Later, in a footnote, the Pope points out that the Eucharist "is not a prize for the perfect, but a powerful medicine and nourishment for the weak". That is a clear hint.
Francis explains that divorced and remarried Catholics should not be "pigeonholed" and, importantly, he uses welcoming language. Some second unions, he says, show "proven fidelity, generous self giving, Christian commitment". This is very different from those cardinals and other conservatives who describe remarried divorcees as living in "public adultery".
What will most upset conservatives in this document, however, is what Francis says about doc-
The implication is clear throughout: God doesn’t simply work through the rules and doctrine; he can draw straight with crooked lines. For those who want the prim, proper and ordered Church, Francis is not their man.
"I understand those who prefer a more rigorous pastoral care which leaves no room for confusion,” he says. “But I sincerely believe that Jesus wants a Church attentive to the goodness which the Holy Spirit sows in the midst of human weakness."
At one point in the exhortation Francis even suggests that through one’s conscience God can ask someone to stay in a relationship even if it is “yet not fully the objective ideal”. Here, it can be assumed he is talking about those divorced and remarried couples who have children from the second relationship, or perhaps cohabiting couples who are unable to get married due to financial pressures.
There is a fair bit of hedging and compromising in the document. The Pope says people can’t just obtain “sacramental privileges”, nor can “particular circumstances” be elevated to that of a rule. He has to be careful given the ferocious opposition he faced during the synod gatherings and he does not want to threaten Church unity.
Where he is less compromising is in his highly critical assessment of the Catholic leadership’s approach to family thus far.
"The way we present our Christian beliefs and treat other people has helped contribute to today’s problematic situation [on the family]. We need a healthy dose of self-
Too often, the Pope explains, the Church was on the defensive and wasting its energy "denouncing a decadent world". There is a stinging indictment of the clergy who he says are simply not properly trained to deal with contemporary family difficulty, while some priests, due to their "scrupulosity", cause mercy to be "obscured by the pursuit of a supposedly pure justice".
Instead, there needs to be a new pastoral strategy based on understanding and love, rather than doctrine and zeal. The main achievement of the exhortation, therefore, is a change in style: a call for a new openness on the part of the Church. If doctrine is to be developed and changed, that will happen later -